It has been a very chaotic day at school yesterday.Now,almost everyone in class is thinking twice about getting married and having babies.Some of them might also be thinking to put a big full stop to their boy friends.And some might just say “No more guys in my life,im going to be a nun now.And no more turning back.” Haha..But in my case, i could say i’ve learned a lot.Are u trying hard to guess wut actually happened??Dun worry..I’m coming to that..

Yesterday,as she was teaching her EST subject,she showed us a video clip called ‘THE SILENT SCREAM’. That video was on aborting babies n how its done.A professor was explaining what will actually take place when an abortion is in process.Everyone was ok wen the professor demonstrated in on a model(the mother’s womb) but things started getting out of control when they actually showed a real women undergoing the abortion process.Some of them didn’t dare watch the video.Some were shutting their eyes n peeping through to see whether things was ok. I’ve got no idea hw to explain it coz all they were doin was just using some sharp tools here n there which ends up in killing the innocent life.

Now,abortion has a very strong link with premarital sex. Almost all who get into this,will say “I did it to prove my love towards him”..Do you think its right???

Hmm…now,lets look into whats love???

According to the 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 from the BIBLE,

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

These qualities can certainly be found in all truly loving relationships.The problem with trying to “find” love in our lives, is that we don’t look for these characteristics. We rather we look at physical appearance, popularity, or wealth. These are not the qualities that God looks at and neither should we.

From this, we clearly see that premarital sex is not love!!Its just a lie.God created sex as a gift for us.He also created a safe place to open tis gift which is a committed marriage.All other places lead to disappointment and pain.

According to Ephisians 5:31 from the Bible again,

It says, when two people are married, they become one flesh.

So, when two people break off their relationship after having sex, it is like ripping apart flesh. This is why two teenagers will struggle so much and become so dependent on those they give their bodies to.

From these 2 verses, i learnt a lot.Coming again to 1 Corinthians 13:4-8(see above) , Premarital sex is definitely not patient, it is not kind, it does not protect, it is self-seeking. It is not love!

In conclusion, do not get into unwanted relationships, because all of these are just emotions which causes many many many problems to us, especially the gals.And always remember, when u get into all these,being a normal asian,most of them wil end up in abortion…Gals,would you like to kill an innocent life???

To the girls : Say no to abortion..(Save those cute babies)
To the guys : Say no to ur emotions..( U guys always have problems in controling them)

To both :Say no to premarital sex!!!

The reason why I actually write this post is just to get things cleared up.I agree with some  of the comments in my previous post.But here’s a case where I’d like you’ll to reflect on.Its about a baby girl, 9 months old raped by a group of men whose age was from 24 to 66.Can this innocent baby be blamed????What am I trying to say is that lust is a physiological process for human beings.I’m talking about both women and men.But,it can be controlled when one has high moral values(.This goes also to girls.)In my previous post,i thought that guys mindset can be changed,but since i had a talk with my guy-friend i learned that some people can’t accept that.So,I’m  gonna conclude this by telling that both men and women play an important role in preventing rape cases. Whether you can accept it or not,its from my point of view.       

Recently,i heard a rape case at my tuition place.A girl was raped by 10 boys and she’s serious now in hospital.(I don’t know how true it is…Its from what i heard).When i heard this i was shocked.The number of rape cases are increasing all times.Whats with the guys nowadays??

Mens and boys are also victims of sexual crimes.Does this means that male victims of sexual crimes are to be blamed for wearing provocative trousers?A person’s remarks and behaviour reflect his thinking.If a person chooses to think of a woman as a sexual object,then he will refer to her and treat her as one.Unless and untill he chooses to think differently,he will continue to disrespect women in his thoughts,words and actions.

Similarly,the motivation for the sexual crime is rooted in the mind of the rapist.Hence,the blame for the sexual crime is,and should be,with the perpetrator and not the victim.But as long as society continues to blame victims,the perpetrator of these stuffs will get away with the crime and the victims will not be able to get the help and support they truly needed.  It is a fallacy that “provocative” dressing leads to sexual crimes.

And yet this fallacy persists, not just in minds of some men,but also in the minds of some women too.There are many examples of modestly-clad women who have been raped or sexually assaulted.The cold,hard reality is that a woman can be a victim of a sexual assault at any time and at any place,irrespective of her age,dressing,social or cultural background.The sexist remarks are a sad reflection of the mindet among some of our elected representatives.This is unacceptable and must change.

People out there….plz comment because i want to know how’s your opinion on this topic 

Hey aiden you again…..
You make me sick la.
Why can’t you understand things……..
First,lets start with the heels again…

Can you prove to me that high heels improve blood circulatory system ?(tis is what you said rite)

You know what,my mom’s still alive and her blood is still running.Ever heard of reflexology????High heels apply pressure on the heel just like reflexology.So, it helps the blood circulation.And of course yes i know about pressure.But pressure doesn’t mean pain.I myself wear high heels and it doesn’t hurt.Once again i would like to suggest trying it yourself.And for your info,high heels won’t break your ankle.My grandmother wore high heels for 30 sumthing years.Her bones are brittle from her age not high heels.Medically,bones get brittle because of lack in calcium.As far as I know,high heels do not absorb calcium away from bones.Ever realised that doctors themselves wear high heels?Why are you so against high heels??Did someone hit you on your head with a high heel???  

Next miniskirts,

I had never said that you must get raped if you wear miniskirt. Can you quote the phrase? Thats what you said right???

Can’t you just check up your own comments.Saw how people commented….Thats because the way you wrote it dude.Get it right next time…..

 About navel piercing……
Yes i agreed thats dumb.First of all,why do you look at girl’s navel anyway?It’s their body.What do you care if they are dumb.At least girl’s pierce their navels.Backstreet boys pierced their nipples for a concert.Yucks!!!!Even i saw a guy in Sitiawan piercing his nose.Isn’t that dumb??No…..Its even more dumb!!!!!You don’t look at pierced noses but you look at pierced navels!!!!THATS NOT FAIR!!!!

Hey aiden you got it wrong again.
Read carefully or put your specks on if you have a poor eyesight as i see you don’t seem to UNDERSTAND!!!!!!

Come again to high heels…
This is what you said

 Answer me with this fact : it hurts like hell and you like wearing it ..??
First of all how do you know that wearing high heels hurts??? Infact, it’s scientifically proven that high heels helps your blood circulatory system.Even our government has enforced the law of wearing high heels to work.Check it up on your mom.What you think she wears to work??Slippers!!!And you know what……You don’t get me again.

 Maybe some of the shorties who would like to be slightly taller.You know why i said this???I meant the real shorties who really need high heels and that doesnt mean that they wanna be equally same in height with the guys.Trust me……..I’m a girl.

Next makeup…

that is dumb. Wearing thick make up and asking opinion .

Aiden,first of all do you think an ugly girl whose on makeup go around asking for ur opinion???Obviously no!!!Maybe they think that the makeup is just nice for them.You know sometimes what u think is nice might not be the same for the rest.Different people have different taste.So if its not good for you maybe it might turn good for others.Got it!!!

About the miniskirts…
I’ve told that earlier.I’m not trying to prove all girls are correct.But it doesnt mean that a girl must get raped just bcoz she wear miniskirt……my dear aiden,have you heard about a goat get raped by a guy.DO YOU THINK THAT THE GOAT WORE A MINISKIRT!!!
Its all because of some idiotic fellows out there who can’t control their lust.And because of it,girls can’t wear miniskirts???Does it sound normal.Think…….And don’t get me wrong.I’m not supporting those girls who wear miniskirts but i’m trying to say that don’t put the whole blame on girls……Just because they and their miniskirts….. 

Okay….
About navel piercing…….I agree its one kind of dumbness,but you have no rights to say anything.Haven’t you see guys piercing and stuffs.They even do stupid stuffs than gurls.What else can i say……..

HEY AIDEN,LISTEN UP!!!!!!
You think i’m an idiot interpreting ur post is it.Thats because you dun get what am i trying to say.U think i have no guts on approving ur silly comment…..Plz la…..It got deleted…And I dont know how….